70 BDSM Humiliation and Degradation Ideas for Your Submissive

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Consensual BDSM Humiliation and degradation…

 

Is it a punishment? Is it pleasurable? Is it damaging?

 

Well, it entirely depends on how the act is carried out and who it's carried out on. Let’s take a quick look at this aspect of BDSM and then we’ll jump to the list of things you can try.

 

 

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THEM


 

In general... 

 

  • Humiliation is something that causes embarrassment – like going outside naked.

 

  • Degradation is when you try to lower or dehumanize someone – making them act like a piece of furniture or an animal.

 

Humiliation, the bottom keeps their “humanness”, degradation they don’t. However, it is possible for some acts of degradation to ALSO humiliate. 

 

 

HOW ARE THEY USED?


 

SLAVE TRAINING – Teaching them to perform certain acts

 

PUNISHMENTS – Correcting unwanted behavior  

 

PLEASURE – Some people enjoy the act of humiliation or degradation

 

BDSM GAMES – Adding these as part of a game situation can add an extra layer of chance, anticipation, or anxiety.

 

 

BEING SAFE, SANE, AND CONSENSUAL


 

1. H/D in any form should be discussed ahead of time – before any scene or interaction with a Dom and sub. Either by better behavior or a fun time, participants should be aiming for a positive outcome.

 

2. It should never damage a sub's headspace, make them feel unsafe, or trigger them to past traumas. Punishments should be clear and consistent.

 

I’ll also add that anything involving a “public place” can’t really be “public”. Places like sex clubs, BDSM gatherings, a private gathering of kinky friends, kink festivals, private property (no trespassing) etc. are the only places you can perform acts of H/D in front of other people Even then you have to stay within the rules of whatever place you’re in.

 

Why?

 

Because strangers walking down the street – vanilla or otherwise – are not able (or might not want to) consent to seeing it. Forcing someone to do this (eg. by parading your sub naked down the street) breaks the SSSC rule and is, therefore, a form of abuse. You also must consider there could be young and impressionable eyes about.

 

BDSM humiliaton t-shirt about a little penisBDSM is already misrepresented. Kink acts in public damage the community’s reputation.

 

3. Any sex acts, or anything that involves bodily fluid, should be dealt with as much safety as possible – contraceptives, condoms, STD test, trusted partners, etc.

 

4. Also, Doms need to make sure that these acts don't compromise their sub’s private life, job, family dynamic etc. If extreme privacy is needed, Doms must adjust accordingly.

 

 

HUMILIATION AND DEGRADATION IDEAS


 

Some of these are male-specific, some are for women, but many will work for any identified gender.

 

  1. Force a male sub to wear slutty women’s lingerie (force cross-dressing).

 

  1. If it’s a woman, make her go out with no underwear beneath her clothing.

 

  1. Make them go to the grocery store and buy the largest cucumber or eggplant they can find and a bottle of lube.

 

  1. Make them wear a chastity belt under the clothes when they go to work.

 

  1. Make them wear a smartphone-controlled sex toy (like a butt plug, love egg, or prostate massager) when they go out and set it off whenever you wish.

 

  1. Tie them up outside and leave them there for a designated period of time.

 

  1. Make him tan while wearing a bikini.

 

  1. Make them wear embarrassing outfits when they go out – take it an extra step and make them go to a Wal-Mart (the store is infamous for customers with strange clothing – their photo will probably end up on some social media site).

 

  1. If it’s a man, make him wear panties and a bra under their clothes.

 

  1. Make them perform rimming (on their Dom or even another person).

 

  1. Have them shave off all their body hair, eyebrows too

 

  1. Make him wear feminine deodorant or perfume.

 

  1. Make him sit down to pee.

 

  1. Make them write something on social media.

 

  1. Have them write their own blog, with lots of details about their humiliations.

 

  1. Make them admit something embarrassing, then share the news with others.

 

  1. Make them sing a difficult song and point out every flaw.

 

  1. Share them sexually with other kinksters.

 

  1. Make them go to “strangers” and admit a mistake or something embarrassing.

 

  1. Make them wear an O-ring gag and have them talk … a lot (makes them DROOL all over the place).

 

  1. Make them look through a magazine and have them tell you all the ways they’re not as attractive.

 

  1. Make them watch porn and have them share all the things that turn them on. *The stranger the porn, the better.

 

  1. Make him wear nail polish.

 

  1. Write insulting names or phrases on their body with a permanent marker.

 

  1. Make them consume their own cum after an orgasm.

 

  1. Have them act as a piece of furniture.

 

  1. Become a human ashtray.

 

  1. Lick the Dom’s boots clean.

 

  1. Put them in a cage display them to the “world” – lots of other humiliations can be attached to this one.

 

  1. Walk around carrying an embarrassing object – sex toy, doll, dirty magazine.

 

  1. Make them go to the store and buy a list of embarrassing products.

 

  1. Eat from a pet bowl.

 

  1. Awkward or strange masturbation methods – like making them hump a stuffed animal or into food etc.

 

  1. Don’t allow them to close the door when they go to the bathroom – comment about the disgusting smells.

 

  1. Peg him.

 

  1. Record an embarrassing action and make them watch it.

 

  1. Don’t let them speak to anyone – they can only grunt or use strange body language (in public this is fun).

 

  1. Penis humiliation – small, worthless, flaccid etc.

 

  1. Make them wear a diaper and suck on a pacifier.

 

  1. Make them dress as an animal (and act like that animal).

 

  1. Make them perform a very difficult task and tell them all the ways they are failing at completing it or doing it wrong.

 

  1. Make them wear high heels.

 

  1. Make them wear a slutty French Maid outfit and clean something (or clean a friend’s house.)

 

  1. Cover them in pudding or other sloppy foods.

 

  1. Make them eat off the floor.

 

  1. Urinate on them. Make them “wear it” for a while, and then clean it up.

 

  1. Scold them when they’ve done something wrong.

 

  1. Call them a degrading name.

 

  1. Insult their intelligence or accomplishments.

 

  1. Make them go into a photo booth and complete a list of embarrassing poses etc.

 

  1. Smear some lipstick on their mouths and make them go out.

 

  1. Make them act like a child – and treat them accordingly.

 

  1. Make them stand outside with a sign saying something embarrassing.

 

  1. The sub must (REALLY) beg for something they want/need.

 

  1. Ignore them completely.

 

  1. Spit on them.

 

  1. Don’t let them use the pronoun “I”, rather a demeaning title like “this slut” etc.

 

  1. Forced chastity – roll some dice to see how long they must go without an orgasm.

 

  1. Fuck them near a window with the blinds open.

 

  1. Pour water on the crotch of their pants (makes it look like they peed themselves) and take a walk in “public”.

 

  1. Make them give a live webcam show.

 

  1. Make them sleep on the floor.

 

  1. If you have a home-desk, make them sit under it while you work.

 

  1. Good, old-fashioned spanking.

 

  1. Laugh at them while they masturbate.

 

  1. Make them wear a paper bag over the head (with eye holes cut out).

 

  1. Make the sub watch you having sex with someone and tell them how they’ll never be as good as the person you’re fucking.

 

  1. Blackmail role play – It can only be roleplay. Real blackmail is illegal.

 

  1. Order for them when you go out for dinner.

 

  1. They must ask permission to do anything and everything.

 

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Any other humiliation or degradation ideas? Share in the comments!

 

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Have a kinky day!

Robyn

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Comments (20)

  1. Silas says:

    1)Make them drink lots of water, take them for a long walk. Nature does the rest 2)Make them skip bathing for a few days 3)For women, poorly fitting clothing and bad makeup (clashing colors, wrong foundation for skin tone 4)Line the inside of her bra with sandpaper.

  2. Bozo says:

    Well I have A HUGE clown fetish! And my bf knows how much I love clowns so he will force me to dress like one for punishment. He calls me bozo and he laughs at me and tells me I look like an idiot! He also loves pieing me with giant oversized shaving cream pies with crust!

  3. Pie says:

    Make them perform some dance like twerk and record it. Later watch it with them and critique the performance.

  4. Silky Slut says:

    Squirt an entire tube of KY jelly up their ass and then take them out for a nice walk. For more fun dont let them wear underwear or make a guy wear lacy panties.

  5. SmallCockBitch says:

    Force him to ruin his own orgasm. Put him into Chastity and deny him from cumming for several weeks, if he fails to ruin it. Of course its only up to you to decide, if it was a successful ruination or not. I. E. At least 5 Dec between end of stimulation and ejaculation.

  6. WorthlessMaleWhore says:

    1) Make the slave eat left over food directly from the trash can. 2) Only allow the slave to pee in the garden (or outside in general) standing on all fours.

    1. Sluttysub to WorthlessMaleWhore says:

      Making the slave pee outside on all fours is hot buddy. Great idea 1)I like being told to do things while Im wearing whatever outfit was picked for me. 2) make your sub do all the yard work in heels and a skirt. Make them show off the outfit to impress then tell them its not good enough.

  7. Slaveio says:

    Lock him up into chastity for several days with proper teasing and edging and then u finally give them a handjob but the catch here is , apply numbing cream on the dick first ! I bet that frustration would be killer !

  8. Slut says:

    pour water into her vagina and diaper her. tie her up in the back yard and then take photos ;)

    1. Shithead to Slut says:

      Having water inside the vagina can actually be quite harmful so be careful

    1. GoddessCandii to Slut says:

      Dude thats just stupid. Thays very dangerous not on a good way. Do some research.

  9. Just a servant says:

    I know I always love it when my partner calls me names.. And makes me feel bad for liking the things he does.

  10. Mr Anderson says:

    You all strange

  11. lovebigdirtyfeet says:

    Make a male slave get naked and on the floor on all fours with his legs spread and its balls dangling and hanging low..then have at least two dommes or more with big dirty bare feet ..line up behind the ballbusting pig and each take turns kicking the slave in the balls.

  12. BDSM lover says:

    The Dom, (female) takes her underwear off and has the sub push his face into the gusset and has to hold them against the wall no hands with his nose, the sub is to be completely naked. The dom will have sex with a superior male whilst the sub listens. If the panties drop there will be a punishment.

  13. BDSM lover says:

    The submissive is required to have sex with a b!ow up doll or one of those blow up sheep/pig for the amusement of the dominant, her bull and maybe some of her friends. Submissive has to wear his wifes /doms wet knickers after she has had sex, so the sub can feel how a real man can please her.

    1. Succulent Savage Says to BDSM lover says:

      Hmmmm.... gave me all kinds of fun ideas there. Thanks!

  14. Bitch Frannie says:

    Make the sub male jerk off but it has to tell you when it’s about to cum then make it stop. If even a drop of cum shows then it get it’s hands and feet cuffed and my biggest dildo lubed with Ben Gay shoved up it’s ass and duct taped in while I watch tv with it as my footrest

    1. Subslut to Bitch Frannie says:

      I wish that could be me

  15. TheUltimatePunisher says:

    Tie them down and get a leg spread bar to keep thier legs open then get a massive dildo with a rope attached to it and shove it up tbier ass with the rope outside spank thier ass hard if they try to push the dildo out attach a noise activated shock collar to thier neck on a stand able safe voltage

  16. Faggot hubby says:

    I cant wait to show these to my master! THANK YOU!

  17. Kinkster says:

    Make you get in a cage outside and be forced to masturbate in front of other Doms and have them insult you and call you slut, whore, etc. and how you are disgusting and worthless and how you are only good for their pleasure. SO HOT!

  18. p says:

    Dress a male sub up as an adult schoolboy or Little Lord Fauntleroy, have him do your shopping and give him a list of tasks at the mall. If questioned, he can pretend he is going to a school reunion, but he might not be believed. Watch him from a distance.

  19. topgun says:

    Have male kiss your 2 or 3 week worn nylon feet or 2 or 3 week worn panties . Have them remove those panties and turn them inside out and put them back on you ( best if you have peed in them several times) then have them go at your pussy licking thru those panties.

  20. Cindyslave2 says:

    When pissing have male lift it’s leg by a tree then sniff the piss Take male slave shopping have it try on clothes in dressing room and then come out to show you if someone is near ask their opinion on how your slut looks

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